Alecia Neo: ramah-tamah
Overview
Tracing the evolution of regional hospitality rituals performed by women and centred around the better leaf, ramah-tamah explores how the ancient act of chewing on a betel quid reverberates through our past, present, and future. Rites and symbols associated with betel leaf practices across South and Southeast Asia are evoked by two performers who engage in an unspoken dialogue of bodily correspondences, hand gestures, encounters and partings. The voice-over weaves together pantuns, written and recited by octogenarian Peranakan Baba GT Lye, and women’s stories that speak of rites of passage, acts of kinship, and the labour of caregiving. Pulsing with different tempos, ramah-tamah enacts a cross-generational dialogue about legacy and ageing, autonomy and women’s never-ending quest for aliveness.